"The secret of change is to focus all your energy, not on fighting the old, but on building the new." ~ Socrates
Where are you on your path?
As human beings, we share a common desire to create the best life possible. And because we are so diversely different from one another - lovingly endowed with unique gifts, talents, and abilities - each individual path looks completely different from the next.
When we envision our personal path's unfolding, we may visualize something outside of ourselves - a winding yellow-brick road leading to the promise of an emerald city. We experience periods of positive momentum, when everything is going well and the things we want are falling neatly and miraculously into place. We seem to be on track.
Then, we experience life's "pitfalls"; moments when it seems like everything has gone awry. At these times, it's easy to feel like we have stagnated, backtracked, or even failed, and that we will never achieve our desired outcome. We begin to believe the negative self-talk that bubbles up into our conscious minds, telling us that we have lost our way.
During these experiences, remember: losing your way is simply not possible. In reality, the path cannot exist outside of yourself, because you are the path. Every challenge has been carefully and meticulously designed by you to elevate you to your full potential.
When you fully open to, experience, and, ultimately, transcend your unique challenges, you are freed from past limitation. In this space of surrender, you can invite in the overflowing source of love and abundance that is already yours.
May Ha‘awina Hawai‘i | He'e nalu - Ride the Waves
He'e nalu is a Hawaiian phrase that means "to ride the waves." A natural seafaring people, the Polynesians were among the first to "surf" ocean waves on olos (surfboards), as depicted in ancient petroglyphs carved into stone and lava rock. Surfing was considered not only a recreational practice, but a spiritual art, requiring courage and trust to glide along powerful ocean peaks.
In ancient Hawaiian culture, all kinds of people - including royals and commoners, men and women - took part in this leisurely, pleasurable activity. Surfing was less regarded as a reward for a hard day's work, but as an everyday activity. This reverence for surfing culminated in an annual beachfront celebration, a festival known as Makahiki.
Ancient Hawaiians perceived surfing - a form of play - as an integral aspect of life in the islands. Enjoying the daily pleasures of the Hawaiian Islands' natural gifts was a privilege afforded to all - and it was not contingent upon hard work, suffering, or sacrifice.
As we consciously ride the ups and downs of our life's unfolding, we can embrace the concept of he'e nalu. A nod from our Ancient Hawaiian ancestors, he'e nalu suggests that relaxation, leisure time, and play are essential to our vitality and well-being. And, if nothing else, he'e nalu reminds us, above all else, to enjoy the ride.
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